To answer this, I don't know. I would like to I think but I don't see it happening. To be honest, I don't know what the future holds.
Your 20s are supposed to be the fun years. The 30s are for settling. And 40s, are....well, I'm not sure yet.
In most cultures (especially Asian), family would like the woman to be married by 30 and producing babies.
I wouldn't mind going towards this goal, but I don't know whether it's realistic. I want my eggs to be nice and bouncing. Fertile.
But then again, do I need to be married before having kids? There are a lot of parents who aren't married but have children together and they seem fine. Although, marriage means you're in it for the long run legally. There's also signs that the couple is cohabiting, have a house, jobs, money and love.
Another reason I would want this goal to be true is for the grandparents. They're getting quite old now and I would love for them to be at the wedding and for them to be alive when I have children. Will they be here for another 8 years? Anything could happen.
All I can do it take it day by day. I would love to see what my life planner is but people don't like to with tempt fate.
When I was 11, my eyebrows used to be very bushy.
Good bushy because I could shape them, but having facials for over 10 years, it's affected my eyebrows.
They're an odd shape now and I wish I stopped my beauty therapist from waxing anymore but I trusted her to know what shape fitted me.
Luckily my eyebrows are black but because I'm Chinese, you can see each individual eyebrow hair. They're not perfectly meshed together. My boyfriend has amazing eyebrows - shape and a good amount.
I never dare to colour them in and wear it out because every time I attempt, they look like a pair of slugs and I've even asked my sister to draw them on like she does with hers and nothing looks good. Trust me, it does not look natural.
BEFORE
AFTER
I've been trying to let my eyebrows grow again because I don't want to end up with over plucked eyebrows which is what plenty of girls have done to themselves. Because of this, they end up drawing hideous ones that cover most of their forehead. It makes you question where they got their inspiration from.
In the end, I am no professional and my eyebrows cannot be saved. They curve like a bracket, therefore I will never colour them in.
My hair is long. It is long and a lot of effort. I love having long hair but maintaining is a pain. It gets trapped everywhere. I see long strands of hair everywhere. My boyfriend finds it up his butt. I find it up my butt.
In the end, I just tie it up in a ponytail. It's hassle but it's beautiful hassle.
Many times I have considered getting a bob just to make life easier, but family members and friends say it wouldn't suit me. I'm a long hair kind-of-girl. Shame. It would be nice to have change.
Maybe when I'm a mother, I'll decide to have really short hair. Don't want the baby eating my precious long locks.
May end up looking like everyone else in China though....
